You Will Never Have Enough Information
Nick Fellers | April 30, 2008
Remember a powerful quote that Tom and I love:
“Engage, then plan.” Andy Grove
You will never have enough information before meeting with a prospect.
If you’re waiting until you have enough then your approach would be to,
“Plan, then engage.”
I don’t know that I’m every really sure about the ratings and
rankings on my prospect list (including a prospect’s capacity and
relationship) until AFTER I’ve gone to visit with them.
The implications?
- You can’t determine what you will ask for until you’ve had a real conversation
with the prospect. Too many times I’ve been told by a board member or
champion, “You can only ask for $X.” During the visit we learn information
that would warrant a $10X ask. (So we ask for $10X!) - It’s okay to not know everything. You can fill in the blanks by asking
questions. - Wealth screening, Google, giving history etc. are your knowledge base
– not strategies. Want a strategy? Go and visit with the prospect. Share
the story around your impact and present the opportunity to save lives,
change lives and/or impact lives. - Don’t to set a bar BEFORE you share your vision, your impact, your
raison d’etre. Don’t make decisions for your prospect. The reason for
sharing your story and your vision is to SET A NEW OR VERY HIGH BAR.
Here is a very powerful question – so powerful we call it the ‘DISCOVERY
CLOSE’.
After getting the prospect VERY engaged around your impact and your priorities
you can share you funding plan and ask:
“Prospect, I don’t know about your capacity.
This program will require $40,000 a year for each of the next three years.
Is this something you could do?”
After you build confidence in your approach, you can drop the line about
‘not knowing capacity.’
It’s a powerful question you’ve engaged the prospect. The answer
will provide all the information you need to plan. It’s important
that you listen, process and keep moving forward with the relationship.
Implied: Don’t ‘engage… then stop.’





Erinn Burch - April 30th, 2008 11:21 am
Thanks for this insight. Everytime I see a “prospect rating form” or some other statement about “knowing” the prospect I cringe.
This puts what we do at the center of why someone will committ to our cause.
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Steve Elder - May 1st, 2008 10:19 am
This is right on! Don’t assume/make decisions for your prospect. You gave some specific approaches to avoid that.
I do wish we could change the vocabulary around PROSPECT. They are people, and they are: INVESTORS/POTENTIAL INVESTORS.
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Betty Davis - May 1st, 2008 2:27 pm
Thank you for this WOW. Since I am”brand-new” at fundraising, after the training in Ireland, this addressed one of my nagging questions. One more to ask: in the middle of thew bullet points…”Wealth screening,” you then said “Google”….does not infer there is somewhere on the internet or Goggle that I should know about to learn the “wealth screeing”?
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